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Karen Boyden Phelps's avatar

Aella's plan would fail because there is no substitute for the real thing. It would only encourage it until it escalated. It normalizes it and makes it seem okay.

The issue is that humanity is now an uninitiated mass with the emotional regulation of toddlers. Sexual initiation began in traditional cultures very early, and it centered on being responsible and accountable for one's own energy. This is because sexual energy is one of the most potentially destructive forces on the planet, which you have experienced, as have I. I don't know anyone unscathed from it, man or woman. When I try to tune into the intent of someone forcing sexual activity upon children, I get this thought process: "Ooh, I have sexual impulse. Here is a freely available vulnerable person who cannot say no." It's that simple. Their immature impulses make them believe that their few minutes of pleasure is worth that child's lifetime of pain and behavioral damage. This is a case where the impacts forever and completely deny the possibility of anything remotely near Aella's idea.

For some reason, we have forgotten this—NO ONE ELSE ON THE PLANET OWES YOU AN ORGASM. You are not entitled to the body of any other human. Ever.

This windigo virus is a program. A mind infection. And allowing it to live in media online spreads it. Pornography that does not display consensual, mutually-pleasurable encounters is spreading it. We must choose to unf*ck our own minds and behavior from this scourge. To do so, we must be clear: if you are someone joining in on your buddy's encounter with a drunk girl at a party, you are part of the problem. If you are drugging your wife and inviting strangers to rape her while she's unconscious, you are part of the problem. If you look at child porn, you are part of the problem. If you prey upon your students for sex as a teacher, you are part of the problem. If you roofie anybody ever, you are part of the problem. If you take advantage of children, you are part of the problem.

Who in our lives has ever said any of these words to us? Who has ever looked us in the eye and told us we must not ever go down this path, because it will eat our soul?

We need to begin reeducating and training ourselves, both men and women and everyone on whatever gender spectrum they choose. This is a human issue. It begins by taking responsibility for our own sexual energy. Once we do that, you'd be amazed at how many problems and boogeymen disappear. We need a culture who understands that our survival on Earth is dependent upon healthy future generations and it begins now, so we should protect all children at all costs.

If we can be programmed for disaster, we can choose to program ourselves for better outcomes. It's time to ask where these ideas are coming from and why they exist. Why we choose to embody them and allow them to live out on this planet. We must choose better.

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gnashy's avatar

"To me, there is something like the “highest possible version of a person,” separate from a non-existent ideal, on whose behalf you are allowed to do things like make “moral guesses” that override their present stated choices."

The guesser is not the highest possible version of themselves, either. Even if they believe in God.

There's more than one (at least theoretical) potentially slippery slope here.

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